Parent to Parent Answers to Frequently Asked Questions

What do you think other parents would like to know if their daughter is considering becoming a consecrated sister?

• Their daughters are not abandoning life. They are choosing another, selfless path.
• Encourage their daughter to pray and do what her heart tells her.
• I have found that the more I encourage and support my daughter and her siblings in their efforts to establish their inner peace and happiness, whatever their path, the more free I am and the less they have to be concerned about pleasing me in making their life choices.
• Depends on the age of their daughter. Will they have any financial obligations?
• Like all of our children, married, single, or religious, parents should pray that they are faithful to their vocation in life.

What was your reaction to your daughter telling you she wanted to become a consecrated sister?

• Admiration.
• She was old enough to make her own decision in life. I just keep her and all my family in my prayers
• My reaction was delight, knowing that after searching in her heart and soul that she had become as certain as one can be that she could answer God's call in this way.
• We were happy for her. We have two sons who are priests and nine married children; we support the vocation of their choice.

Any other comments, concerns, or advice you may want to share with other parents?

• Perhaps she should have joined earlier in life.
• One thing I have learned through the years is that with each choice my offspring make, it is one more invitation for me to be close and open to God. Wisdom never fails those who seek her.
• If she needs the help, then help her explore all or many Orders so can find the one most suited to her personal goals and personality. Shower her with love and prayers
• Although I am not a Roman Catholic, I have great love for the Church and for my daughter. I believe her life can only be enriched in her new vocation.